Trying out night shift (well.. half of it)

Ahhh. Is it really the night before Monday? Ahhh (*wailing), I'm not ready for work yet. Haha. It's really interesting in a way that though I love work & feel super fine during work (not dreaded or anything), I don't anticipate having to go to work. I kinda tag a long my colloegue on her night shift. So woke up at 2.30 (slept at 10), got back home at 6.40, didn't sleep again until 1. So I guess sleep is a little messed up & my body feels weird. But the thing is the night shift here is a breeze. Well.. I guess whose on the night shift. 

I get to spend time with my family for a day before driving back here Saturday evening for the night shift. Going to weddings are a nice way to spend time (and straightforward too). I am staring myself a lot in the mirror in front of me. I think I looked nice even with dry messy hair (I need to oil my hair after this). I made fried rice from sushi & that's something. I pray it last until Tuesday lunch. It's seems like a good packed lunch option.

Travelling laptop,

TGiaH

Turning a plan to another plan

So.. My appt was cancelled. I cancelled it. It kinda shows my values though. And within the same evening (after 5 at work), I said to myself this is Allah's plan & what's next is better. So instead of waiting it out October, I found a midway to a female clinic who I go to pilates to. The price somewhere in between so I guess it's okay. It show me also where I am in wanting taaruf. So I guess the event taught me in some way. 

The undecided thing is whether to go back to my parents home for the weekend as I had cancelled my appointment. I was weirdly fatigue after my morning walk on Saturday, which messed up my whole sleeping schedule. I forgot which part was my deciding point. I think for the study for next week + its only free week before my sister came back + the fatigue. 

I got into a super slump as I got into gaming. A short gateway turned into unstoppable mindless indulgence (and it's an idle game - Dragon Hatch. Aiyoo). It was then 1 in the afternoon. But I turned my day up as I went out for groceries + cooked with a more calculated indulgence. I actually did a lot before 1 too, cooked breakfaat, wash & hang my sheets, pray dhuha + reciting the Qur'an. But I feel super down & uggh but I don't know any other word than bad. 

I made my own chicken-thai noodle soup. Ahh. It's comforting when the food you made is good. Alhamdulillah. Another super fatigue after my early dinner walk, but I'm okay as long as I'm sleeping in back at the right schedule. Does it count that I'm a medium size scared+nervous for starting tagging tomorrow. Allah please make it easy. 

Another, on my phone. 

TGiaH 

Drama marathon + servicing my car

I did a drama marathon on Teach You a Lesson (it was a bit meh in the end). So I kinda wasted 10 hours of my weekend time. That's the problem with me at my parent's house. I dunno how to rest but also have a good productive day here unlike my weekend at my own house. I organised my life. Here, I'm just lazy. I miss my parents but I don't know how to spend my time with them without them getting worried (by my clingyness of wanting hugs) or without me getting agitated. Example at lunch I felt a bit agitated that my dad is not supporting that career in a hospital of course comes with working shifts & I'm not just settled down, I will be having tagging at 2 different departments for me to actually be able to do my shifts. 

One thing that made my day a bit is reading my old colleagues notes where the word reliable is written. That words bring me a smile. I miss having a group of same age work friend, something I realised it's not here. All around I'm working with people 10-20 years older than me, the respect I have for them but also the mismatch in relatable things we have. It's just different. I had my car serviced yesterday, spent only ~RM140, Alhamdulillah. Drove all the way from Melaka at 8.30, arrived at 9.58am. Half an hour before my appointment. The battery's good so I hope it last until the next service or until next next service. And next week, another appointment.

I slept quite a lot today too, I don't what's wrong with me. And I'm always nervous for Monday's drive.

Currently azan maghrib,

TGiaH

A weekend on my own

Writing this on my phone. Sunday morning. I was planning for a morning walk then as I change clothes. The rain slaps. I pray I get a nice walk with beautiful weather & air in an hour. Aamiin. So I switch to hanging out + breakfast on the balcony. 

I had trouble sleeping last night. The mistake I made is upsetting. I feel worst. It's like I'm trying to do my job as well as possible. Then something slaps. I just wanna be competent at my job. Seen as competent. I don't know how to comfort myself. 

The rest of yesterday was good though. Having time to fully spend time for myself. I work out, enjoyed myself cooking. I made caramelised onion. I prep chicken. I did my room & took out the trash. It made me feel good. Except the fact I cried because I miss my family (particularly I want hugs like old times) seeing my mom post pictures of my dad with breakfast. I have to fight the thoughts of not coming home out of regret. Allah protect them please. 

It is a week,

TGiaH

4 days off? Too shortt.

It's fun while it last. Yeah, I did rest in a lot but also every day is a day out with weddings & today I guess the correct term is a play date with F's child. Haha. Other than the out events, I did half-dust my room, quick sort my docs, and since Sundays binge watch on The Good Doctor. I barely work out which is a bummer so I am gonna make it up after this. Even this blog I'm putting it off until the last minute. I just pick up the clothes that I hang to dry so that I need to fold. I'm half-hungry but I think I can held up until dinner. Hot bird is nice. Would buy again but not that quick. Ilao ilao? Didn't get it. Turns out these 30 years old ladies are more interested in plain cold mineral water. Haha. 

These past few off days, I'm thinking of marriage. Like at this point I don't know why I am not married excepts it's Allah's wills, do I actually wanna be married, or I actually don't, asking Allah for guidance is correct right, I should stick with what I wanna hold on to (my values). I'm implementing the advice from the book that there can be two truth. I can both want & don't want, it's black & it's also white. There's no just one. Both are valid in a sense & time. 

60 sen mineral water,

TGiaH