Sunday, 7 May 2017

Anger management

I'm contemplating now, which topic should I talk about first.

Cause I'm so mad (not quite, now), I decided in writing now.

For people who know me, I'm quite the person who shows every reason to smile.

And rarely get mad (that's why my adiks said that they are so scared if I get mad.)

But there are 2 things, that will burst my anger like a hot zit.

One, people who disrespect others.

Two, people who talk bad about things which are not right in front or behind the people I care.

Still, I have the patience to tolerate a one time mistake.

Now.

I really think I'm more pissed off than mad.

And it's not like a one time event. Like consequent events like make me piss off like this.

One, lack of empathy (doesn't put him/herself in other place). Second, lack of communication.

That's two thing I can say which frust me out, now. Really don't you think of others?

For me myself, the reason why I talk much is that so the other person would me comfortable talking to me later (cause they would think they know much about me and my personality so on).

There's really no other reason I talk except that.

So please talk people. Don't trouble the other party side.

And btw, that's how I managed my anger. I talk, sort it out. Cause I understand the other party.
In the end of the day, it benefits both sides. Being both rational while emotional careful is important.

And one thing people need to quit, talking behind the backs. That's another I'm really trying to be careful with my words.

Easy story. You can talk out with me. Discuss.

I'm not mad already.
The Girl in A Hood

Bonus: Sign of my anger, I huff. Sign of my frustration, I sigh first before I talk.


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