Half work, half off work week

As someone who is always working, let's say the side effect is you're gonna feel guilty for not working aka utilising your time aka figure out other things you actually wanna do. Free time? You're gonna feel guilty for it. Eventhough that 'free time' is for you to rest. Try to teach yourself yo this rest gonna make you feel refresh and much better at work. Ahh. 

This week I have;

Monday - tasmek herba at night

Tuesday - day in at home

Wednesday to Friday - work but no overtime

Saturday - kswp + work event at afternoon

Sunday - another day in

Sundays are for reset and recharge, my dear. I use it for laundry, tidying my room and house a bit. So why I feel guilty for not earning more? I thought I love a rest in so I block out today & yesterday in case I had to continue work until night..

Yesterday work event meeting my coworkers, them talking about what's the next plan as contract is near ending. I don't know. I wanna travel and have like an online remote job I enjoy and excel at as well have the flexibility, I also want to have enough passive income to support me. Also, I like my pharmacist job but I feel I'm not contributing much as I'm busy working all the time. Ahh. I don't know.

Trying to revise my trading class,

TGiaH

4 days off, when one have that extra time

Since evening, I am in slow mode. Not having to rush to do things, thats a big nikmat. I can take my time. I have time. Such is that time is truly a rezqi. Well.. Granted my friend cancelled our meetup the evening so yeah. A whole day in. Also, I know it's also because I did not contribute to housework today. The very very least I was able the feed those loud hungry kittens. Like finally. Trying to feed with only one capable hand. Ahh. I tidied a bit in my room so that's contributing to a better mood. 

I don't think I'm on my phone much today. Well, I hope so. The phone screentime mixture today is whatsapp for darussyifa' notes (yeah big tasmek herba this monday), better late than single show, merge fashion. I studied as in briefly going thru everything. I think my brain is thinking of focusing on my part more that's why. Maybe the nerves will come later. I just hope it goes smoothly. The tasmek. 

Yes, tomorrow I still have locum, but still in my mind I have four days off work, an extended weekend eh. One thing saying this week, I had two days where my hand acted up. The fear of not being able to manage my own self  which very includes not being able to work or do daily basic activities is scary. I am reminded that one day I might not be as capable as I am now. And yeah that's totally freaking scary. I hope that day doesn't come. Hence, in the next few days, I am very reminded that my moments now, I am very grateful. Very very grateful. In a way, too good. Alhamdulillah.

Moments,

TGiaH

Being a cat mom

So end up we found the cat dead on Tuesday. Leaving us with 4 kittens. And now we are left with two. The white one gone yesterday, the black one today. I have no hope much in case they survive, but everyone is putting what we can despite our busy schedule. Buying kitten milk formula, feeding bottle and syringe. Trying to feed them and keeping them warm take one to one and half hour. It is a full time job indeed. Now with the last 2 grey kittens. So much like their mom.

Our pharmacy settled with the big audit. And I gotta say, this week I'm off my diet. I need more veges! Consider it a cheat week. Anyhow despite friday lunch call, yesterday was a full darussyifa class. So basically my day finish at 7. Alhamdulillah I got time to reset and reset this morning, so I'm feeling much better. For my sister, it's still half registering half processed she's living another life in another continent. 

Andd. I feel underprepared for next wee tasmek. I can't wait it to be over. Hoping to squeeze a bit of painting in. Just a few minutes, before I got ready and off.

One hour before locum,

TGiaH

Flight 180 degree

Have you ever wondered you walking on one path then suddenly your life trajectory changes in a minute. Well, that's my sister. A few hours more she'll be in one of historical university. 

Monday - news

Tuesday - mad, need of luahan

Wednesday - fatigue, distracted

Thursday - redha but then slight false hope of staying during lunch

Friday - redha kot, switched my extended syif, want to spend time with her but sokay

Saturday - mind wonder a bit, locum. Triggered by my mom. Work is work. 

Sunday - no tears, world cp day hi tea, pluck the courage to talk to Datin Seri.

Monday - with the last moments, got the hug I needed, but had to keep the talk short if not waterfall

I need to go to class now, so even it's lowsy, I'll leave it like this.

I'm trying to ride the emotions but remind me to asr-maghrib is can gives me a chest of sadness.

Super late,

TGiaH

The thorn within and the fast thrown dagger

Over the last 28 hours (since 6pm yesterday), the processing with up and down tears is in progress. All due an unhealed trauma response of an unemotionally intelligent person. Unfortunately this is what my family have to face. One can neglect the cost of time, emotion of others due to one own definition of giving the best. But in truth it's self defense and sometimes a bit of selfishness too. I (hopefully) never fully understand how can someone be selectively emotionally blind to others. Saying congrats but the one receiving the decree is in tears. And all one terpaksa hadap. Telling the story is one thing but telling the story here is another. As I try my best to keep other's aib, I'll write the whole story in my journal. 

To my dearest sister, I come to realise I am more attached to you than I thought. Our codependence on each other. Our sisterhood. A rezqi until this time Alhamdulillah. I have your back until the day Allah unwills. Akak sayang Jidah. I'm sorry I don't have enough to shield the pain of this. We both feel helpless in this. More than else, Allah is our Rabb, Allah is our Ilah. To Him, He knows and to Him, we rely on. And yet we are only human.

We went to Cameroon Highland last weekend. Probably the last family trip we are having in a while. We went after 10 years. A momentary joy before the very day the news of death came. A one year old child twin from a couple who waited 14 years for the children, gone to instant death due to a lorry shooting straight to him. And the mother is my foster cousin. Husayn. Similarly your death clicks when I read the death of the Prophet Muhammad's  SAW grandchild. After the tahlil, a joyful sending at the airport for my cousin's son study.

These past fews day it feels like the truth that we are nothing but Allah's plan is rammed into my head over and over again. But anything Allah.. I hope I only speak good words. To remain the humbled servant in this temporary hellish dipped in heaven earth. Forgive me. 

And yet You are never ending Merciful,

TGiaH

Family trip, memorable disaster

Yeah, I couldn't update last week. If anyone notice. Haha. We had a 4 days family trip as our prime minister gave us a 4 days holiday and 3 days work. Ahh a blessing Alhamdulillah. I drove my dear car near 5 hours (plus  hour break) along Sekinchan and highways. I enjoyed the drive. And oh boy congrats to myself for this achievement. So we got down to Bagan Datuk. A simple small 'pekan' along the beach for my cousin's wedding. Then we sleep at in the nainland as we go for a day trip in Pangkor. The trip was good except all were getting on tiredness. Though the biggest let down was the officers in Pangkor. For the first time in my life, I am very dissapointed in Malaysia, the country I kinda look up-ish. Bad people and service are no escape well I hope the next generation knows and serves better. To a better Malaysia. Aamiin. 

After 3 days work, I finally got an introvert lazy day in yesterday. I need my days in. Haha. Oh pray for my 11 years old laptop please, the one I'm currently writing with.

I guess that's it?

TGiaH

3d off + 3d work + 3d off, 2d1n ipoh trip with coworkers

It's the start of a new week. Yes, I'm blogging at work because despite having like 3 days work last week, this girl is never capable to not be busy (quite). I had 2 work shifts until night, then 1 normal shift which the day after was the commencement (lol, big word) of ipoh trip. I. I. Enjoyed that trip. And I think pretty much everyone enjoyed it too. Much much better than going with just A. What make it work I think is because we are like follow with the flow, and everyone pretty much agrees with it. The group dynamics was great, and everyone is aware to counter own character, like knowing take long time to get ready, so preparing in advance. Also, going with friends of similar budget (important tip). Except for the rush to the train back here, everything was good. One to note, being able to just leisure down for a day, away from routine commitment, to spend money and time how you wish, even for a relatively short 2 days 1 night, BIG BLESSING. Alhamdulillah. 

Yesterday, also another good day. I got some rest in (much needed), going to kenduri late but after you prayed zohr, and no traffic jam is french kiss. So so nice. And able to talk and connect with An and not just Al, it's a nice talk. 

Ipoh Trip breakdown: (4 pax)

Stay: Palor hotel (great location, spacious & decently clean room, a little loud as at the street centre, the receptionist help carry our bags upstairs (some of the rooms are not directly accessible by elevator).

Transport to Ipoh: Ets at 9am, the next day back 12pm. In the city: Grab.

Agenda (in order): 

Canning dimsum - fish cake wraps, prawn dimsums yum

OldTown White Coffee Experience Centre - the stairs are good for photo shoots

Concubine lane - love to pass by, like the vibes

Platform coffee (Harry Potter vibes) - nothing special about buttercream soda & upstairs, but the order station deco is great

Sho floofeee Ipoh - rose gochujang pasta yum for sharing, creme brulee rating B?

Window shops nearby

Book xcess & Yasmin Ahmad - small but enjoyable, cool clash vintage vibes, books in old bank vaults

X jump at an old mall - funn but sore toes

Miker pizza - yumm but long wait and almost no tables

The cowboy burgers - instead of dinner, this made it to brekkie, price is definitely cheap and worth it compare burger joints in KL (burgers RM12/13? Nice), recommend the crispy chicken burger

Easi desert - ahh such a feast to the eyes, I like this

Tasik Cermin - went to Tasik Cermin 2, the ride was more adventorous and hidden, at Tasik Cermin 1 a nice explore around the straight cave and standing photoshoot at the edge - Do come early!

New hollywood - the pan mee?! I always come back for this (note Idk where else muslim friendly/halal pan mee). Fast service. 

Rough expenses:

Hotel: RM70

Ets: RM91

Grab: RM11

Food: RM90

Tickets: RM42

Shop: RM40

Total: Around RM350 which is reasonable for a semi-budget trip

And here's to another new week,

TGiaH